Just b’cos it is ………Doesn’t mean it has to be………….!!!!!!!!
An eternal voice that’s driving the humans with righteousness and virtues of sanity, through the woods of life to betterment has always come up deceiving the unseen darkness. Yes we have evolved in a spectacular manner relishing the nature through an artistic renaissance constantly reaching higher ascents of life.

A system has come up defining the way of leading life which is given the name civilization empowering the species to reach the ascent and work for its betterment, maybe they could be different ideologies led by different legends. But we do have a system been set up just to make the living easier to mankind.

But we see some flaws in the system that’s established largely to every nook and corner of the “Planet Earth” cos it’s the thought process of our legends came together to come out with the best for the time from then till they could foresee… there is always scope for a new dimension to make an instant change to the gradual life process isn’t it??? Are we still bound to go by the same system though we sense it’s not right???

Yeah this is the simple thought that strikes any creature with a right conscience, of course our conscience is very subjective J…….i am speaking of the moments of life where we have let the things to happen “Just because it is “ !!!!!!!!!!! Had we given any thought on why does it has to be???

Speaking of that have we really excelled??? Have we been outstanding in building a living environment having perfect mix of flora and fauna??? Or are we just dominant enough to pacify other forces????

I know that many thoughts are rushing through the veins, but have you been able to be confident enough to come out with a strong voice.. J , not to worry we are sailing in the same boat let’s just row against the dark and tough tides… we will sure find light.

May be am not right at all instances but am sure I make some sense. should we let it happen??? just cos we are stuck up in the rat race to excel in the materialistic goals set or rather just bound to the ideology of a righteous descendant and stepping back to raise voice against, or just trying some cheap tricks to take advantage of…

Should we let the flaws in the "system” take us to darks rather than try glorifying the beauty of renaissance and evolution? Yes we could let it take the right way by just giving a thought on just cos it is …. Does it mean it has to be…>!!!!!!!!!!! Maybe we end up carving down the flaws in the sculptures of our life or maybe we could make the curves look more magnificent…. !!!!

Just a thought!!!!!!!!! Bid for it if it’s worth it.!!!!!

Adiyos……..:)

Long waited outing…………

Finally out from the stress filled lifestyle of a typical Software Engineer……. J J….cheers to year 2009 that gave some sign of relief while it ends..

Well it all starts from the minds of bunch of college pals stressed up and really longing for a break and waiting for a reason to re-unite and party hard. Yeah it was almost an year we had met, forget that had no time to listen to our inner voice too...That should explain me being almost lost without posting any of my dim-witted thoughts……. :P J

Finally we cooked up plans to get off and planned for an trek to gopalaswamy hills, near Bandipur, since we had to meet up in Mysore city. The city I would love to live in after Bangalore and city that gave me a tag of graduation and to add onto the fun I finally could convince my pals to go on bike ride all the way from Bangalore, well that’s a big deal with the record of shabby accidents I ve had in college.

We started Bangalore late, it was busy day every living w orm following its footsteps having no time to realise what they really want to ????? But it was a day different for us…. Just been lucky for a few days... Now though I had convinced my pals to go on bikes, there was an inner thought pointing to the road terrors, I have had a glimpse of all of em coming in front of me, whatsoever I had my new black beast bought and had to get the so called idea “ Myself and bikes is a big NO NO” out of minds from everyone. Uff was lil tough wat if I add another incident to my terror history…. :0… closed my eyes prayed to god n just started off…… well was a smooth ride to start with as usual busy Bangalore traffic made sure not to take any chances… took a break on the way to have bonda – Tender coconut he he… and to my surprise no problems till so took a deep breath and felt the fresh air which I never get to enjoy in Bangalore. Kick started and back into the game we rode quite well and reached srirangapatnam and a few km to mysore but I had took almost 150 mins already and that’s a long time to bear on bikes no matter though u have the cushioned seats making the ride comfortable, bummy hurts…..oops ..got to be censored he he…. And to make ride more joyous I was drowsy as I hardly got any sleep last night due to @#$%^&&* resons J… now the game begins it was noon n the traffic was also quite more and my pal seating behind is not disturbing me and counting on god to spare his life from any surprises..ha ha ha lol… now made my mind just had the roads and mysore in my minds drove slow but cautiously and guess what we reached Eureka….wow no new new terrors onto my account.

Hey btw I missed out on one thing I did go through “AJM” ( u should no wat this means, am just nt finding better alternative), yeah just a few cm away to hit a van due to a lorry stopping suddenly and the Van took a diversion and a car already on the speed lane, now am stuck felt my response time was quite bad L and was a bad idea to stop as I had many vehicle behind me speeding down the lane … holy grail!!!!! One voice sounded Just do it..!!!! ok did hit the top gear and hands on brakes and accelerated to tunnel through the narrow space between two four wheelers and road took a curve to make it worse ….wow …. I got through with just a few cm of space on both sides …. Uff … seems the almighty did really listen to me this day JJJ.

Made it to Mysore reached friends place eating more than 200 min of time thanks to pathi for holding back without any complaints. Now its party time yeehaw!!!!!!

Called up friends met em all and came bak in the evening, got refreshed and back on ride to Chamundi hills, I just love this place … best place to hang out in Mysore….and I was also enjoying it for riding my Black Beast all day long but yet my pals were holding back to hop onto my bike.. Damn I hate them … :0 well someone had to we went atop hill had the silly chat and me getting onto the nerves of every one as usual and guys were cursing me….he he.. then did hit to planet-X, now we were exhausted very much in need for a grand dinner … did find a good restaurant had an overwhelming dinner and just a shot of my favourite drink… plan was to get high but the majority was of so called good guys… rather dumb arse…oopsie, well don’t mind pals:P, so had to refrain from it. Well the time came to pay the bill and guess what though all were earning I saw no difference we were still fighting on who will pay the bill… it did not turn out like the adds or movies I see where ppl fight to pay bills after starting to earn…. I liked that we were still same old college pals…..Bt then Clock ticked twelve almost was longgggg day.we just needed some sleep and finally the day went pretty cool.. more than all I got time to be myself and stay away from traffic, noise, artificial smile and deadlines to meet.

I guess I should write about my trek in my next blog cos for ppl who just wanna know abt trek or ppl snot knowing me well, all the words above would merely make any sense……. Catch u soon on my bak to bak blog

A perfect kiss says it all

A perfect kiss says it all and probably the best way of expressing thy love, a best way to surpass into the soulmate's heart and make an lasting impression.

This pic speaks it all...imagine the impact of tender touch of soothing the thirst of love every soul . An compassionate, juicy, sensuos, ecstatic and overwhelming experience that every one does like to be feel:P 

Its just so subtle n ecstatic feeling that engraves the heart of beloved one probably thats where the impact of expressions takes over the beauty of words they are as gud as lightning fast, intensive and undoubtedly leaves its firm impact Just imagine a tender kiss just enough to soften the little juicy lips of the little fairy making her feel the sensuos feelings letting the blood rush in her veins and a tough caring look just after a tinge of touch on lips, close enough to let her feel the warmth that can be felt underneath the shadow of ur love and not letting even air come btw with a spiky bite on them just enough to make her realise the pleasure in pain  and just curl her up in arms n fingers going around her neck pulling her down to earth when she's almost in state to fly onto fantasy land.

Kiss is the language to speak to soul, a kiss in silence says it all.

Doesn't it really seems to be best way of expressing all ur feeling a tender kiss saying how subtle role she would posses in ur life n a curl around letting her know u shall stand beside her always and neither let any spec of a thing to come in btw, wat best other way can u think of to express so much of love at once and to add onto also let the senses awake simulataneously to bring the two souls together.

"SOUL MEETS SOUL ON LOVER'S LIP"

Well though its best it has complexity associated in doing it fine, as its just not so simple as cakewalk  but always worth taking trouble to express things at its best and enjoy the fruit of love fresh from heart of thy soulmate.Afterall fruits of hardwork are more enjoyable than the ones that are easily reachable.

well not to miss out to give a warm hug to ur soulmate after a kiss cos 

A KISS WITHOUT A HUG IS AS GOOD AS "A SHOT OF TAQUILA WITHOUT A TINCH OF SALT  " OR RATHER " FLOWER WITHOUT FRAGRANCE"

IS NOT THE KISS THE VERY AUTOGRAPH OF LOVE ??????-HENRY FINCH

Life's a game of uncertainity .....!

                             "Life is so simple n subtle"  *conditions apply

OH Yeah!!!!!! Thats wat is going through my minds too... some words are easy only when said and not when dealt with em. Its not so damn easy to ebb away the barriers to make life simple.

The best part of game of life is it has "NO RULES" , "NO

 TIMELINE", "NOR LIMIT", except for an exhaustive list of guidelines,tips from the legends who are assumed to be successfull, now doesn't it se

em so easy to play this  game????? 

Nopes not at all it is easy unless ur used to face the surprises and be ready to dig ur way o

ut of the woods! people have succeeded ,reached remarkable heights only with

 the zeal of making the difference to the world.

simple idealogythat can take you out  there is if u can visualise the possible

 uncertainity and frame ur reactions accordingly...

Well just get in the inputs flow from all the directions and

 choose the one that ur conscience bids for, thats it untill u decide the way u rule ur life...

Give your best every time no matter u win or loose friends.

lemme share few words that keep me going.

" Life's a football game and ur its goal key, nobody cares how many u saved all taunt you for a single goal you miss out"

yeah so aim for that perfection and dont care for the acknowledgement u should have recieved for ur work.

Maybe this pic i have flicked from a site speaks a lot better than my words .........

Symptoms of suffering from softoployee

This is the syndrome thats ruling whole globe, very infectious,toxic, beneficial in short term and very dangerous in long run...... BEWARE OF IT -its called softoployee originated from simple english literature "software" and "employee" which means becoming a software employee 

Symtoms -1. a living being likes living in virtual worl

d, tweaking of virtual resources(coding, R&D) 

  2.loses interest in physical activities.

3. will have lot of hunger for social networking a

n

d connections with people in social networking sites but wudn't take pain to know abt person next to him,.

4.very eager to go for outings and acts crazy even looking at a lawn, huts, small lanes, rivers (though it wud be daily saga for thousands ) and so on 

5. will always starts to start talking abt weekends and is on cloud nine by end of friday (though weekends n friday make up 3 days of week which is almost half of week)  .

6. speaks a lot of playing games rituals, politics ,rights,virtues and many but ends up in an 17*17 lcd screen.

7. will rig up with many short term relationships easily and also looses them sooner n easily (maybe they get into the misconception that its as simple as signing in an out of a site).

8. speaks laguage of processor, ram , coding, interpretor always and makes things seem lot complicated then they are.

9 will have real bad temperment and horrible physique usually with several pounds been rigged up in lower body and big bold n round tummy.

short term benefits- He/She will make lots of money  in short time,learns well to play mind game, learns well to work a lot without feeling difference between day and night even at times of extreme stress,will have a strong existence in virtual world, wide network of people whom u haven't met,realises how to enjoy life (though never ll enjoy in reality.), become highly philosophic ( well infected people are termed as HR's), will roam around lot of places in name of projects around globe.

Long term loss-  1. will have no time to look into himself, and is very hardly alive within his own family, will have time to go around places but hardly gets time to be at home. 

2.earns a lot of money but hardly gets time to spend (so spends them on paying twice or thrice extra on same things in showrooms saying they are branded).

3 loses his social life.

4. becomes noctural , has no difference between day n night unless light stops glowing fron lcd screen

5. seems to be lot older than he/she is . is half dead by thirties

6.wud hardly have good heaalth and physique 

7.men are usually bald and women have short pony hanging

8. always stuck in thoughts , good at heart but always prone to go with corporate strategy n filthy politics with in work environ

9. hunger of money and status never ends n will never think of real hunger of love n peace he needs.

Treatment-

Simple get the best of available things and leave the rest

workout daily for an hour

spend time with family and friends

take some timeout away from the computer and electronic gadgets

breath fresh air and set priorities right between family, life and profession

be urself and dont get into corporate politics.

think of ur deeds , urself and people around u before sleep.

proper consumption of these shall keep u immune from SOFTOPLOYEE

Rafting through the Ganges

The days were just normal,bugged with dating with my system at office all day working on issues which were of mere concern, was so bugged of social networking sites and googling too...we just needed a break then came a thought striking to mind to go out on rafting to rishikesh. well thanks to my friend shreyas for suggesting months ago.Things didn't work for the weekend but the reviews n snaps were so good that i cudn't think anything else other than rafting,well finally all worked we did plan all things got a camping site booked n rafting scheduled.

we started rt on saturday morning in haridwar, a place away from all the corporate drama, no cell phone,no computers around that prisons u in a cubicle neither bounded in front of TV

.... perfect outing. we reached camp site in midst of jungle on river bank with a few necessary requirement taken care of . First day was cool wehad a holy dip in River Ganges... oh yeah all my sins are washed away n am allset to commit new set of em.....he he :). Then we went on treck n enjoyed the splash of fresh n pure H2O from hills-PATNA FALLS and going on with all gaming, camp fire, night chats n so on.... we got plenty of time to relax ourselves  in pleasant natural environ......most exciting part is to come

We started early on next morn on ride to shivpuri to start our rafting.we got padded n ready for the ecstatic ride over the ganges.The heart beat was just going up looking at the pace of flow of water out thr, well thr was a strike at corner of heart tht i dont know swimming too but just putting off the thought with an wish to go on for the adventure...Finally we started with 

Mr Bobby as guide i still admire his accent though he knew minimum english he managed well with r the US accent while commanding the rafting team and his circular hat adding clour to his attitude.

There was 16 km of rafting to go on after a small training to gain sync with team we headed to the deep river out thr starting with first rapid "Return to Rapid" giving the feel 

of how wors

e things cud be then came "Roller coaster" this was so good taking us all over the su

rface..... i am just short of words to go on.....by now we were confident to face the ganges adding 

trouble was the freezing cold water that tests ur endurance and going on we faced next 4 Rapids "club house" Cash flow" Golf coarse- tou

ghest of all"and  "Initiation"... we were so in need of break took a break and just jumped of to river trying swim with life jackets on, this was so relaxing u cud sleep on cold crystal clear water in midst of forest n hills n rays of sun blazing through along with the cool pleasant breeze.

I thank the vendor who had set up a chat shop (bhelpuri gaadi) in midst of the rocks thr...oh we were so hungry just rushed to him to get something to hog on....no matter how muchever he charges :) :P , u get to eat thr something to calmdown the hunger in ur tummy thts great isn't it???

            

                                  Here comes the adventure that takes  breath out of u... CLIFF JUMPING- it sounds simple u just need to jum

p off from 25 feet off the rock to water , but wen u out thr all set to jump i sware  u need somet

hing more than u naturally can take.... i just dint want the tag of not doing it,just prayed with in took a leap n jumped .......OH YEAH i could sense how long each second is, how strong is gravity and also how wrong is idea to commit suicide by jumping off any building......at same time u enjoy the feeling of being free, u feel like flying " I so envy birds"...... This interval of time seemed to be so long and finally a lump of flesh splashes water "DHAD"n u go go go on deep in water n manage to come up after a few seconds i guess but the interval of time u sense before and after  come out seems soooo long!!!!!!!!!!UFF!!!! now once am out of it..the feeling is WOW....WOW ........ WOW........awesome one....i could not resist so walked all over the cliff again and did jump again this time i tried to measure the height checked all things around though was second th efeeling was not diff it was all same.....i am sure those shud be moments whr my heart beat wud ve reached threshold...there were many who came till the last step of cliff n turned back . the feeling tht i cud jump out was so good/....he he bit of self admiration joy... cudn't get much time out thr had to continue the ride is not over there came small fun rather nasty part of ride.... we crossed thru an area called "GOA BEACH".. a place which exactly was same as the name sounds... a bunch of melanin defficient feminine beings resting in minimums on them.i guess thr were beings of both sexuality but who cares...he heeh.... i wud stop back here not explaining much , after all "Beauty is best in the eyes of imagination" .... well dont envy much friends i had to be descent enough to keep with the status tag hanging on.....:( :|... Finally our ride ends with biggest rapid "Double trouble"..... by now we were out of calories to burn .... just so damn tired after a 3 hour ride in water with so much of excitement n mixed feelings going thru my heart....

well this was one of the best of best weekend outing i ever had.... friend if u get a chance never miss being to this place....

Friend

Friendship, an eternal feeling that rests in soul and minds of every living being. The power that can change the life and dimensionality and take it to highest ascent reachable by  a homo sapien, if driven by right Friend.

Now whats a friend ?? is a friend really so important/???

maybe yes, not because he drives u through the good n bad,

 always does good to u, 

helps u make a living,supports u in ur goals 

But because he/she helps u realise the world around,

makes all possible efforts to bring ur potential to light,

makes u feel n lead with the facts of life,

helps ur sound thoughts to  come to light and make a difference to society and urself, help u clean the filth in u and endure the darkness and ups and 

downs of life in other words  leading " THE LIFE" the way it should be LEAD.

Well now who's a friend it could be ur conscience or  ur will-inner voice or ur intensions or the real people around u who care for u whom u term as friends textually or the mean intensions of the self centered crowd around that deepens n makes ur living tough probing u to give out the light required to clean the filth or the wise telepathic waves from good sources that intrude ur own cruel intensions and kill them or maybe urself.

Though friends and friendship is so  beautiful and essential it does sometimes hit u hard under ur buttocks ,they r equivalently painfull when been betrayed and if happened to lose them in half way,take it as a chance to dig new meaningfull dimension and give an essence of goodness in you.

whatever it is its a beautiful term that makes the livingof each individual very beautiful, easy going and joyous. am just happy to see my friend in each and every spec of life.

Life's maybe beautiful without friends

Life's maybe easier without friends

Life's ascents of life maybe be met without friends

Life maybe better without friends

Life maybe simple without friends

BUT Life is complete meaningfull only along with FRIEND,Friend is an art of beautifying life.

Lead life as u wish but dont miss to feel the most beautiful creation of feeling of friendship.

           "Bigger the network of friends, better you live"

LONG LIVE FRIENDS